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This Blogging Thing

in Lifestyle, Style on 08/24/15

“If you can get paid for doing what you love, every check is a bonus”

Oprah W.

Hi everyone! Happy Monday 🙂

For a little while I’ve been wanting to write a blog post about this blogging thing and share with you a little piece of my personal story.

I’d never in a million years imagine myself to be doing this. I don’t recall the exact moment I decided to start a blog. I remember opening my Instagram account back in December 2014 and I had no idea what to post. I knew I wanted to have a record of my looks, my feelings and my thoughts, but after a month I realized IG wasn’t going to be enough. I needed a website, and that’s how Ways of Style was born.

At first I was so excited and shortly after, simply scared. I think fear of failing or fear of what people are going to say stops us from doing a lot of things, and that was a reality of mine for so long, until now. There was something inside me, a voice as some may call it, that never shut up until I decided to start with the website. Now I have all these ideas all the time. I’m still finding my voice, discovering who I am, what I like and what I don’t and so many things that I wouldn’t have been able to discover without all of this. Blogging is the only thing in my life where I don’t have an excuse for. I mean I have tons of excuses for eating healthy, working out, catching up with work etc. But for blogging and taking pics I always seem to have time and that says a lot.

My love for fashion has always existed, but I wanted my blog, my space, to cover so much more. Because let’s face it I don’t have the best stuff or the best pics (But it will get better, because this is my learning process), but I do have a lot to say and I wanted my blog to be a platform for creating a voice, and hopefully some day a really loud one. For this blog post I partnered up with Ikwetta, a beautiful brand that creates hand-made products in Africa and generates jobs for local artisans. They made this beautiful red clutch I’m wearing. If it wasn’t for my blog I wouldn’t have had this opportunity.

It’s funny but I wasn’t going to post these pics. You see, my sister told me this outfit was a little “Christmassy” the green and red combo, and of course I didn’t listen. But it kind of does, right? Anyway, I don’t really care LOL, I love this dress and I’ve been using it during summer a lot and I can’t wait to style it with sweaters and tights for fall! Plus the funny picture is sooooo funny. And by funny I mean weird. I seem to do that with my legs a lot hahahaha. Scroll down for details hahaha.

When it comes to trying out new things, we have to be open minded about doing things wrong. These days I’m looking forward for mistakes, they give me such an opportunity to grow and to learn from them. I’ve learned to see every mistake as a unique blessing. I’ve realized that every time you try to be unconventional with anything about your life, there’s people who will immediately walk away and I’ve tortured myself with thoughts and asking God and myself why until I read this:

“Not everybody is built to handle the rough times. Can’t be surprised when you fall off with certain people. Few people understand what it really means to be there for somebody and that’s the roughest part about being on a journey. You realize the main ones that said they’ll ride, are the first to fall off. People make promises when the sun is shining and make excuses when the storm comes. That’s why I’m always thankful for the rain; it washes away the unnecessary. The reality is, you could be amazing, genuine and sincere but still be overlooked. Because honestly, people don’t want something real anymore, they just want reasons to complain and excuses to avoid.

Having a good thing is so hard because meeting a strong person is so rare. So I’ve learned to respect when people run from me, I’ve realized my kind of love ain’t for everybody and I’m at peace with that.”

Can I get an Amen?

Well, this is my gift for you. This wonderful piece of advice. I wish you a wonderful and positive week ahead.

Take care and thank you so much for reading,

XO,
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PS: I have a huge announcement for next week, can’t wait to share it with you all!






 

And this is the funny pic! I just had to post it because from the waist up everything seems ok hahaha but then my legs… God… Tyra Banks would be proud!

 

Zara Green Dress

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Link for the clutch here.

 

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  1. Andrea says

    September 1, 2015 at 7:35 pm

    LOVED the “bloopers”. Very inspired by this post and by everything you’re doing. As I’ve always said and keep quoting ““For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.”
    ‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭29:11‬

    Keep it up!

    Reply
    • Ways Of Style says

      September 1, 2015 at 11:30 pm

      Amen sister!
      Thank you so much for your continuous support!
      Love
      XO
      Aimara

      Reply
  2. Ellese says

    September 1, 2015 at 1:59 pm

    You have such a great eye for details! I love they way you paired the red bag with the green dress and added the red-rimmed glasses to bring it all together. Very beautiful! Can’t wait to read more from you! XO, ellese

    http://rockpaperglam.com/

    Reply
    • Ways Of Style says

      September 1, 2015 at 11:31 pm

      Thank you Ellese,
      Checking out your blog right now!
      Thank you so much for stopping by,
      XO
      Aimara

      Reply
  3. Alejandro says

    August 31, 2015 at 2:19 pm

    You always look Gorgeous

    Besos

    Alejandro

    Reply
    • Ways Of Style says

      August 31, 2015 at 2:20 pm

      Thanks! 😉
      Love,
      Aimara

      Reply
  4. Marina Ingvarsson says

    August 30, 2015 at 2:53 pm

    Love your blog!

    http://bonaupetite.com

    Reply
    • Ways Of Style says

      August 30, 2015 at 8:23 pm

      Thanks! And thank you so much for stopping by 🙂
      XO
      Aimara

      Reply
  5. francesca says

    August 27, 2015 at 12:04 am

    im glad you ended up posting these pics! I think it’s adorable! And I love the pumps! Would love if you stopped by my page
    xx

    Francesca

    Frank Vinyl | Enter my Freepeople Giveaway!

    Reply
    • Ways Of Style says

      August 27, 2015 at 3:31 pm

      Thanks girl!
      Love your Blog! Let’s stay in touch 🙂
      Very excited about the Free People Giveaway YAY.
      Thank you so much for stopping by,
      XO
      Aimara

      Reply
  6. Vivianne says

    August 25, 2015 at 10:36 pm

    I am constantly inspired by your determination and how brave you are, and that’s why I’m so lucky to be your friend! When you make it big (and you will), I’ll be so proud to say I believed in you and supported you from the beginning. So just keep going until that day comes ?

    PS: How did you manage to do that with your leg?!?! ??

    Reply
    • Ways Of Style says

      August 25, 2015 at 11:12 pm

      Vivi, it’s been really hard and you know it, but friends like you really really help me to look forward!
      Thanks for believing in me.
      And about the leg, well, absolutely no idea! Funny pics that spontaneously happen and I have to post!
      Fun fact: I wasn’t sure about sharing these “bloopers” with you, but now I can’t wait to see if I got a really funny one like this one! I actually get pretty excited about it 🙂
      Love you!
      XO
      Aimara

      Reply
  7. Rachel says

    August 25, 2015 at 2:58 pm

    Amen! Thank for you sharing your thoughts, great post. Looking forward to your announcement! Keep on going girl, you’re doing great.

    http://www.racheldinh.com

    Reply
    • Ways Of Style says

      August 25, 2015 at 11:07 pm

      Thank you Rach. That really means a lot.
      Thank you so much for stopping by 🙂
      PS: Loving your blog and your posts!
      XO,
      Aimara

      Reply
  8. Thida says

    August 25, 2015 at 12:12 pm

    That’s exactly how my blog got started also, when IG isn’t enough 🙂 you’re doing great! love the funny pic at the end! xo

    Reply
    • Ways Of Style says

      August 25, 2015 at 2:47 pm

      Thanks! Your blog is amazing as well! I love your style and I love your pics!
      Thanks for stopping by 🙂
      XO
      Aimara

      Reply
  9. Stacey says

    August 25, 2015 at 12:05 pm

    Aimara I love this post! You are so pretty inside and out. I love that you post that funny picture at the end hahaha
    Take care gorgeous!
    Stacey

    Reply
    • Ways Of Style says

      August 25, 2015 at 12:07 pm

      Hi girl! Thank you so much 🙂
      Thanks for stopping by. I’m glad you are enjoying reading my crazy little thoughts.
      Have a great day,
      XO
      Aimara

      Reply
  10. Carolyn says

    August 24, 2015 at 2:57 pm

    I love that Oprah quote! It’s fun being able to do your hobby yet also make revenue off it!

    http://heyprettything.com

    Reply
    • Ways Of Style says

      August 24, 2015 at 11:42 pm

      Yes, that’s the dream right? 😉 Oprah inspires me so much!
      Thank you for stopping by!
      XO
      Aimara

      Reply

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When deciding if I’ll work with a brand, I ask myself: 1. Am I PUMPED for this brand/product? 2. Do they let me have creative freedom? (Nothing worse than a brand that wants you to post a script)
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•	They are very comfortable for hot weather.
•	So far, they have donated over $125,000 to hunger relief programs.
•	They come in packs of 3 and are affordable!
•	All masks are made in the US.

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PS: sweats + white t-shirt are from @americangiant. Both are size S and fit 👌🏻. Sharing links in my bio and stories. Remember you can get 15% off using code ‘waysofstyle15’ ❤️
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Simple t-shirts are the best because you can style them in many different ways! I got these 2 from @americangiant and I’m obsessed!! (I also got sweatpants that I’ll share later). I’m linking them via my stories and in my bio. They were kind enough to offer a welcome code for you guys!! 15% off using code ‘waysofstyle15’ ❤️

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If you’ve seen my stories, then you know how much we love it here. We came to Tampa because it was a good city to explore the Florida springs and other fun nature stuff and so far it has not dissapointed! We haven’t really explored Tampa yet, but hopefully we’ll get to walk around more this next weekend.

Manatee videos will be posted on my stories later today. Also, links to this look are in my bio and stories as well 😉.

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Anyone has the day off today? How was your V-day?

We spent the whole day at the beach and then went to dinner to one of our favorite local places for Caribbean food 😍 The place is called Bamboo Fire if you are ever in the Delray area. It’s super small, low key, not fancy at all, with outdoor sitting and the food is so so good!! 👏🏻

This week we are getting ready to drive to Tampa and I’m sooooo excited! We have decided to stay down here (Florida) until May or so and will go to Chicago after when it’s warm and hopefully we are already vaccinated 🙏🏻 Things can change, but that’s the plan for now ☺️

Hope everyone has a great week ahead ❤️ Mine started sort of meeehhhhh (more Venezuelan passport related headaches), but hopefully I’ll be able to figure something out 🙏🏻 Wish me luck! 💫
Don’t ever take getting a new passport for granted my American friends! You have no idea what I’ve been through to renew mine 🙈 (and it’s the norm)

PS: linking this look in my bio + stories. Everything but the shoes is 40% off!

Top: size S Petite
Pants: Regular  XS
...
Ok bye 👋🏻
...
#waysofstyle #easylooks #presidentsday #thisisann #styleinfluencer #floridastyle #floridawinter #whatiwore #capsulewardrobe #fashionblogger #shopstyle
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